If you’ve thought about trying bondage but don’t fancy heading straight for black leather, whips and chains, BDSM massage is a great introduction to kinkier eroticism. As part of our mistress allure package, our professional female masseuses offer a service that’s the perfect initiation into the world of light BDSM. This week, we take a closer look at BDSM massages.
What is BDSM Massage?
BDSM stands for bondage, discipline/domination, sadism/submission and masochism. These are sexual practices that involve the use of physical restraints, the granting and relinquishing of control, and in some cases, the infliction of pain. BDSM is one of the most popular fetishes and activities within this spectrum are vast.
BDSM massage involves using these techniques throughout a therapeutic erotic session to heighten pleasure for the client. Many personas and power dynamics can be explored. It offers the opportunity to explore new kinks in a safe and sensual environment. It is important that boundaries and preference are discussed prior to any BDSM massage to ensure comfortability. Communication is absolutely key to all parties involved.
Roles
During these massage sessions, participants explore the main roles, which include:
Domme – The Domme or Dominatrix role usually involves taking control of everything during your time together. A domme enjoys ordering their submissive to carry out whatever they require. Heard of the terms spank, flog, corporal punishment and humiliate? These are just some of the popular techniques used, however the goal is to take their sub to their power and pain limits to show authority. This of course is pre-agreed beforehand and there are more vanilla or sensual activities that can be explored before any hardcore practices. Dommes are assertive and love nothing more than for their client to worship and obey them during private time.
Sub – Submissives serve others and conform to the authority of their mistress/master and their rules. Depending on the preferred fetish, they could dress up as a sissy, be spanked, restrained, tickled or humiliated during their massage. The role of a submissive is for those who love to follow orders and therefore enjoy complete loss of control or power.
Switch – Usually an individual with prefer being a domme or a sub, so switches are less common. Switches get the best of both the domme and sub world. Switching means that both dominance and submission is on offer from your masseuse. This leads to a better insight into all perspectives for BDSM massage. Professionals who offer both sides to BDSM in their packages can potentially broaden their possible clientele list quickly.
Popular Techniques
For BDSM massage, the best massage techniques may vary based on the preferences of your therapist and client. This kind of massage should blend sensual and erotic techniques, incorporating elements of the preferred kink. Common techniques found in a bondage massage often include:
- Sensual and erotic domination
- Light/medium bondage
- Light/medium submission
- Sensation play
- Tie and tease
- Body to body massage
Clients can safely adapt these techniques based on their exploration desires and overall comfort and intimacy levels. It’s vital for the receiver to focus on their body sensations and their connection to their masseuse to fully immerse themselves in the experience.
BDSM Massage in London
At Dark Massage, we offer BDSM massage as part of our Allure Mistress extras package, however you can still opt in for lighter version od BDSM with Dark Allure massage. Do you like to experience a complete power switch? Allow your masseuse mistress to take control of your session together, as you unleash and explore your deepest desires. If you’re looking for the perfect introduction to BDSM, our Allure Mistress extras package showcases domination, amongst other kinks, at their finest. On the other hand if you prefer to try something more subtle, try our Dark Allure Massage.
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Dark Massage guarantee a personal indulgence that will always leave you wanting more. Whether you’re after a signature service, a tantric massage, or want to try something new this January, our specialist massage therapists can accommodate whatever is most comfortable for you.
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